Monday, September 14, 2015

CONTROLLING PAIN...CONTROLLING SUFFERING

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       Controlling pain in our modern age is done quite well in a great many cases.  Controlling suffering is something else.

       And so I seek again to deal with this challenge that reaches us all.  For yes, indeed, I have had enough personal experience that include paralysis and a broken hip replacements to name only a few.

       First, off, many of you immediately know what I am talking about.  You know what your first thought was after the accident or a bad medical diagnosis.

        "I wish I could put my life on re-run."

       Depending on your personality you experienced terror or at the very least an abundance of anxiety.

       And then the questioning.  Will I get well?  And when?  Whether it was a physical injury or an emotional injury; death, divorce, etc.  the feelings were still pretty much the same.

        You, me, any of us...this is a test...a test of the medical skills of those around us and the spiritual strength always available.  And what we pray for whether we put it in words or not...is more steel for our soul.

       And how we approach this time is crucial.. for our response will make us grow or it will cripple us.

       What first to do.  Pray that the pain and suffering not be wasted.  That we learn from it...benefit from it..

       Learn patience...gain more empathy with others and less unconcern.

       That's right first important lesson to be learned and sometimes relearned.  The old cliche' of turning a lemon experience into lemonade.

       As for myself...when I walk without a walker  but can no longer play a fast game of tennis, I concentrate on the positive. 

       I can walk.  For awhile I couldn't.

       It is that simple.   People also die from broken hips, particularly when they are as I am an octogenarian so that has not been hard to do...this feeling of gratitude.

       Nor do I make light of the increase in empathy.  I have always cared about people and their pain. 

       I now care in a totally different way.  It affects my prayers.  It affects what people feel when I say "I care."

       And do not make light of the word "empathy."  Gain enough of it and people will feel it from you even before you say it.

       What next to do?  Be sure you take a walk with Jesus that leaves only one set of footprints in the sand.

       The kind of walk that allows Him to carry you when whatever your tragedy is becomes too much for you alone.

       Is what I now write an over simplification?  I think not. 

       "My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me: and I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.  My Father, which gave them me, is greater than all; and no man is able to pluck them out of my Father’s hand.  I and my Father are one." (John 10:27-30)

       And would you in your courageous response to pain do so with such unbelievable spiritual strength neither you or those around you can believe it. 

       Then face your problem in such a way that if the moments were part of a biography about you they would be an inspiration to family and friends.

       Ah yes...read some biographies of men of great faith...their lives will lift you up.  They really will if you will read those biographies.

He was a beloved pastor and a man of compassionate action.  He loved God, felt the love of God and daily gave the love of God.  And so one day Bishop Ralph Cushman wrote:

I met God in the morning

When my day was at its best.

And His presence came like Sunrise

Like a glory in my breast.

All day long the Presence lingered,

All day long He stayed with me,

And we sailed in perfect calmness

O’er a very troubled sea.

So I think I know the secret,

Learned from many a troubled way;

You must seek Him in the morning

If you want Him through the day!

       Seventy-odd years ago, when America was in the throes of a great depression, Franklin Delano Roosevelt calmly advised this nation, “You have nothing to fear but fear itself.”

              What I am trying to emphasize is a truth as old as time, basic theology and common sense all wrapped up in one - the truth that God is Creator, we are His creations and if we get this priority list straight we won’t make the mistake of trying to go it alone. 

         That His offer of a relationship is real and that our acceptance, or refusal, is monumental

That God is big enough for our biggest problem.....our biggest sickness or tragedy...millions down through the ages have shown it is true.

       God is bigger than the biggest stock market rise or crash. He’s bigger than the latest technological breakthrough.

        All the earthly pomp and pageantry in the world to install a president or a king is play-acting as against the eternal ruler of all nations and all mankind.  An office on the 61st floor may well be great, but never forget God looks out from the heights of heaven. 

Danger sign!  If we play the game called “Earthly mightiness” and thereby put ourselves on a pedestal that should be reserved for God, we have just made one grandiose mistake.  And when we need him most we are out of practice in finding him...the most.

       God is so awe-inspiring with a true and eternal greatness.  After all He could and did send his Son to die an ignoble death and turned what had before been a shame into a salvation.  This God before whom we bow and call out to in prayer.  

Nearer my God to thee? You can’t get much closer to WOW than an eternal NOW.  For God is here, now, through the power of the Holy Spirit.  He is, He was, He evermore shall be.  

SO IF AT PRESENT YOU HAVE NO SICKNESS, NO PROBLEM, NO PAIN...I BUT HOPE YOU ARE AWARE OF YOUR BLESSING AND ALREADY THANKED GOD FOR IT.

       But...if not...pray to and fall on our knees before the immortal awesome creator...and began your prayer, "Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be your name..."

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We all know people who have been made much meaner and more irritable and more intolerable to live with by suffering: it is not right to say that all suffering perfects. It only perfects one type of person ...... the one who accepts the call of God in Christ Jesus. --Oswald Chambers

       Life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you respond to it.—Unknown

Our problems are opportunities to discover God’s solutions. –Unknown

The world is full of suffering, it is also full of overcoming it. --Helen Keller

In this world you will have tribulation, but be of good cheer, for I have overcome the world. --Jesus Christ

You may never know that JESUS is all you need, until JESUS is all you have. --Corrie Ten Boom (Concentration camp surivor)

Grief knits two hearts in closer bonds than happiness ever can; and common sufferings are far stronger links than common joys. -- Alphonse de Lamartine

My barn having burned to the ground, I can now see the moon.— Japanese poet Masahide

"I walked a mile with Pleasure
She chattered all the way;
But left me none the wiser
For all she had to say.

I walked a mile with Sorrow
And ne'er a word said she;
But oh, the things I learned from her
When Sorrow walked with me."

Robert Browning Hamilton

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       It is available on amazon.com, Barnes & Noble and many other book sites.

     A new quote below from Rev. Wyrick's 9th book THE SPIRITUAL ABRAHAM LINCOLN (read the rave reviews below the quote)

Many were quite willing to see him permanently gone, not just to Washington but from this earth. 

Hate letters assailed on a regular basis. 

Finally a plot to assassinate him in Baltimore was uncovered, and by repeatedly reminding him, “You can hardly be a good President if you are a dead President,” his friends were able to convince him to secretly depart Harrisburg. 

Accompanied by Alan Pinkerton and W. H. Laman in one lone car pulled by a single locomotive, no lights and telegraph lines cut, he came through Baltimore at 3:30 A.M. dressed in disguise. 

Many other lonely middle-of-the-night times lay ahead.

       "Positive, powerful utterances...skillfully enhancing our understanding and appreciation of Lincoln while revealing the Divine source of his strength."

       Lt. Colonel C.A. Olsen (Ret.) Asbury College (Professor Ret.)

       "The Spiritual Abraham Lincoln is an extremely well written book that investigates what might be termed the spiritual side of President Lincoln. It's both scholarly and very readable. I came away impressed at Mr. Wyrick's portrayal of the President and with an altered and enlarged vision of the man:'

       William Hoffman, Award winning fiction writer; author of Blood and Guile, and Wild Thorn

       "Wyrick has authored a wonderful examination of the spirituality of one of American history's most devoutly religious leaders...a pleasant and readable book that has a rich depth of information."

              Maynard Pittendreigh Presbyterian minister

        "When it comes to invoking religion in support of any of their decisions, politicians need to sit at the feet of Abraham Lincoln. Reinhold Niebuhr once called him 'America's greatest theologian.' Why so great? Because he invariably distinguished between human works and the works of the Almighty. As Wyrick says, 'He wore the mantle of humility easily: because he was more impressed with what God was doing in the world than with what he, president of the United States in the midst of an awful crisis, was doing. That is why in his last major speech he distinguished between both human causes in the Civil War and the Almighty's 'own purposes.' Lincoln would have agreed that it is better to leave God-talk out of politics than to decorate human proposals with divinity. This is a book for our American time. Through his careful study of Lincoln's career, Wyrick compels us to remember that piety belongs in politics only when piety transcends politics."

       Dr. Donald W. Shriver

       Emeritus professor at Union Theological Seminary in New York. Author of An Ethic for Enemies: Forgiveness in Politics

        "V. Neil Wyrick's fine work allows the reader to appreciate Abraham Lincoln's Christian commitment and his prophetic role in American history. Should have a wide readership."

       James H. Smylie Professor of Church History (Ret.) Union Theological Seminary, Richmond, Virginia

       "Neil Wyrick's The Spiritual Abraham Lincoln should be read by anyone attempting to understand the man who was probably the most complex person to ever hold the office of president of the United States. Dr. Wyrick is intent on demonstrating that the spirituality so often expressed in Lincoln's writings and speeches was not merely lip service to a Deity, but rather expressions of a profound faith in a real God. It was this faith that provided the wisdom, compassion, insight and sometimes steel that Lincoln would need in full measure as he led the United States through the Civil War. Dr. Wyrick's clear and unpretentious style of presentation is very much in keeping with the character ofhis subject, and in so doing, Wyrick makes his point very well that Lincoln, his beliefs, and the faith that formed them, are as relevant to a troubled America in 2004 as they were in 1863."

       Daniel Allen Butler, author of "Unsinkable"; The Full Story of the RMS Titanic, The Lusitania and The Age o f Cunard
 
QUOTE BELOW IS FROM WYRICK'S WRITINGS

          There is no other organization in the world like the church.  It is a breed unto itself.  It is a congregation of sinners, not a country club for saints.  To become a member you have to profess your unworthiness. 

CLICK ON THE FOLLOWING TO TAKE YOU THERE


      (These are selected sermons from over 50 years of ministry and as a worldwide evangelist Rev. Wyrick preached them all the United States and all over the world)

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Recent articles Rev. Wyrick has written for this web site are:  REFLECTIONS


·         Here Comes Summer (July 2012)

·         Spring (May 2012)

·         Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow (April 2012)

·         Wayward and Windy (April 2012)
 
Just remember that “the pain of discipline will cost you pennies, whereas the pain of regret will cost you millions.”

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How can we keep our faith from being a weak and fruitless thing?  How can we not be foolish little men and women groveling in the dark shadows of overeager egos. 

          Well, first we must do more than just pray.  We must believe in our own prayers.

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Anxiety out of proportion makes us become like a centipede trying to put his best foot forward.

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        It's an old joke, I went to the doctor and I said, “Doc, when I do this, it hurts.” And the doctor said, “Then don't do that.”

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        How many things have you been anxious about that were things which you knew before you got into them were probably going to create some problems for you?  And if you asked your doctor, or your minister, or common sense and your God, all of them would have said, “Don’t do that.”

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        To buy into the community of accountability we have to realize that like bikers we are divided into two categories.  Those who have fallen and those who will fall for anything. None of us are perfect.

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          Think on it this way, some philosopher of old wrote it and it endures because there is so much truth in it… every right implies a responsibility; every opportunity, an obligation; every possession, a duty

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      Some of the sermon titles posted recently

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Before you decide to purchase or not purchase his book THE SPIRITUAL ABRAHAM LINCOLN.... view his Award Winning One Man Dramatization of Lincoln (since he wrote the script for this drama it will give you an insight into what you will find in the book itself)

Available on Amazon.com in printed form and on Amazon Kindle Books. and at many other sites

TO VIEW THE LINCOLN One Man DRAMA and 3 other dramas; Ben Franklin, Martin Luther & Charles Wesley

click on the following URL

http://www.speakerneil.com/

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BELOW ARE MORE QUOTES FROM NEIL'S RECENTLY POSTED SERMONS

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A QUOTE FROM THOUGHTS POSTED ON MY OTHER BLOG WYRICK'S WRITINGS ENTITLED

       Two stores faced each other across a very busy street.  Their owners were in constant competition with each other.  One day, the owner of one store put out a sign that read – If you want it, we have it!

Almost immediately the other owner put out a sign –If we don’t have it, you don’t need it!


A QUOTE FROM THOUGHTS POSTED ON MY OTHER BLOG WYRICK'S WRITINGS ENTITLED

WHO ARE YOU?

NO…WHOSE ARE YOU?

       Who are you?  Whose are you?

You influence and are influenced according to the answer you give.     

Are you are the flavor of the month because you are determined to be like everyone else no matter what?  If so, consider being more independent in our thinking and actions...because God wants you to grow up.

It may be easier being someone's shadow but wouldn't you really rather be a sun. 


       QUOTE FROM THOUGHTS  POSTED ON WYRICK'S WRITINGS ENTITLED "Who Are You?  Whose Are You?"

       This is an old quote, and a romantic one as well but, nevertheless, can anyone say of you, “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

            QUOTE FROM THOUGHT PIECE POSTED ON WYRICK'S WRITINGS ENTITLED

" WHEN A NATION STRAYS TOO FAR FROM BEING MORAL IT IS WELL ON IT'S WAY TO BECOMING A MESS

        James 4:17

To him therefore who knows to do good, and doesn’t do it, to him it is sin.

        Someone once said: “A belief is what you hold, a conviction is what holds you!”

        So what holds you, constructs you, leads you with a push when needed?

       Quotes POSTED ON WYRICK'S WRITING ENTITLED WHO ARE YOU?

NO…WHOSE ARE YOU?

        In a Peanuts cartoon strip Peppermint Patty is shown talking to Charlie Brown.

“Guess what, Chuck? It’s the first day of school and I got sent to the principal’s office.

And it’s your fault!”

Charlie Brown responds, “My fault? How could it be my fault? Why do you say everything is my fault?”

To which she declares, “You’re my friend, aren’t you, Chuck? You should have been a better influence on me.”

In the comics, it’s funny… but in real life it’s much more complicated.

       Would you like to read the entire thought piece?  Then... TO TAKE YOU TO THE WYRICK'S WRITING'S SITE

                        click on the following


          Yes, God loves you the way you are but he loves you too much to let you stay that way.

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      Click on the URL below to WATCH NEIL IN HIS WORLD FAMOUS ONE MAN DRAMATIZATIONS OF ABRAHAM LINCOLN, BEN FRANKLIN, CHARLES WESLEY AND MARTIN LUTHER


       To Order and Read Neil's 9th book THE SPIRITUAL ABRAHAM LINCOLN

       GO TO amazon.com

       QUOTES ABOUT THIS WONDERFUL INSPIRING INFORMATIVE book

       STILL RECEIVING RAVE REVIEWS 8 YEARS AFTER IT'S PUBLICATION.

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