Tuesday, September 1, 2015

A BENEFIT PROGRAM CALLED PATIENCE

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Was is...the...no..not that...rather....just a minute I'm getting there as soon as...well...now...what was I writing... what am I talking about? Well...back to what I was preparing to say.

       If I had kept up like this much longer I would have lost you.  The attention span of we humans has never been particularly long and I fear today it is even less so.

       Folk today wouldn't put up with the party telephone lines of yesterday.  They would grow crazy at how long it took to get to my grandparents mountain farm 300 plus miles west from Norfolk, Virginia.  Top speed on those 1930's curving roads, 35 miles per hour.  And as to mistakes on a typewriter that one had to correct with whiteout as against a computers "delete"...forget it.

       I learned 5 languages for years in college and Seminary and it took forever...and I still never considered myself anywhere near as proficient as I would have liked to be.  Today we see ads promising How to Learn Spanish in 30 days.

       Fortunately the Lord is more patient with us than we are with each other.

       "Father. forgive them for they know not what they do."  And Jesus hung there because the impatience of the Pharisees and Sadducees with Him was greater than their patience.  They wanted Him to change His mind and His words and he wouldn't He couldn't.

       And all the time He was patient, "...when He was reviled, did not revile in return; when He suffered, He did not threaten." (1 Peter 2:23)
       And some people were impatient with the Apostle Paul and look what they missed.  What wa sit he said in II Thessalonians 3:5" Now may the Lord direct your hearts into the love of God and into the patience of Christ."

       Today's political climate is a cauldron of heated up impatience.  All the authorities on either side of the political fence terribly impatient with all the authorities on the other side of the political fence.

       And thereby no one listening to anyone.  Just like all the teenagers who are impatient with their parents ignorance lined up against their genius.  And all the mates who impatiently tell each other how perfection really should not be too much to ask.

       Tolerance...that's patience.  Intolerance...that's impatience.  Which of these do we have so much of thee days?

       The art of patience is flunked by a host of amateurs because there are not many professional patient people among us.  Of course, it isn't all our fault.  What with Fast Food, high speed expressways, instant access to a host of things we want to instantly access...how could it be otherwise?

       Meanwhile, back at the ulcer ward...we are killing ourselves.

       Don't know whether the church with its speedy Service guarantee is still alive and well...but there was...there really was a church in Florida that advertised it's morning worship service lasted only 22 minutes and not a minute longer.  The sermon was 8 minutes.  I could find no reference as to how long the prayer was.

       America prides itself in being a leader.  There is one statistic we could pass by.  We lead in heart attacks.

       I heard about a man who was trying to invent a pill that would cram eight hours sleep into four.  Last thing I heard he hadn't succeeded.  Actually I think he went crazy.

       How can we be more patient?

       1. Try to stop calling other people names like "stupid" and worse names than that.  Name calling just accelerates any impatience we may have with another individual.

       2.  Try to not make  statements like, "I can't stand physical therapy.  It takes too long to get results."  I'm in to my 16th month of ongoing orthopedic exercises to improve my balance and strength after breaking my hip.  I fill my days with "thanksgiving" rather than "why didn't my hip get completely well the day before yesterday?"

       Wellness, whatever the cause takes time...and sometimes there is only partial healing...and patient thanksgiving for what healing does take place does make sense.

       3.  Are you a relentless suffering saint?  When or if you are trying to get someone to commit to the Lord or go to church or pledge to some time to charitable cause...are you so impatient in your enthusiasm...you turn them off rather than turn them on.

       In 1989, Margaret Thatcher, ex-Prime Minister of England, who was referred to as "The Iron Lady," suffered from this same human view of patience. She said, "I am extraordinarily patient provided I get my own way in the end."  It was a witty but not wise thing to think or say.  It was being honest but revealed a problem we all suffer from far too often.

       I am not by nature a patient man.  I try not to use it as an excuse.  I try to use it as a starting block for finding more of this illusive blessing.  I prod myself with prayer and down through the years there really has been improvement...but then isn't that what Jesus promises when He says "I am come that you might have life and that you might have it more abundantly."

       The litany of impatient responses is all with us and sometimes if we listen carefully it is our own voice we have.  "Didn't you pay any attention to what I was just saying?  Why do I have to keep repeating myself?"

       There are many variations on this theme.

       Erma Bombeck had such a very special talent for getting to the heart of things.  In describing children she was really describing life for it is the changes that take place that require so much patience...

        “Children are a lot like kites ... You spend a lifetime trying to get them off the ground. Finally they are airborne, but then need more string and you keep letting it out, and with each twist of the ball of twine, there is a sadness that goes with the joy because the kite becomes distant, and somehow you know that it won’t be long before that beautiful creature will snap the lifeline that bound you together and soar as it was meant to soar ... free and alone. But then, there comes the time when one kite or the other suddenly nose-dives toward the ground, and you have to be ready to patiently try to get it airborne again.”

       Have you had a dream nosedive and shatter into a thousand pieces?  Has your patience run out more than once before your persistence achieved?  Do you sometimes just get plain tired from picking yourself up while picking up the pieces?

       If so...please don't give up on patience...live with your stumbling and learn from it.

       Marriage problems?  A good marriage is golden when there is patience.  It is riddled with despair when nothing but shouting takes place.

       So yes again... please don't give up on patience...live with your stumbling and learn from it.

       The same is true with all relationships...be they nowhere near as intimate.

       A wise old man said this about himself. “I was a revolutionary when I was young, and all my prayer to God was: ‘Lord, give me the energy to change the world.’ As I approached middle age and realized that life was half gone without my changing a single soul, I changed my prayer to: ‘Lord, give me the grace to change all those who come into contact with me. Just my family and friends and I shall be satisfied.’ Now that I am old man and my days are numbered, I have begun to see how foolish I have been. My one prayer now is: ‘Lord, give me the grace to change myself.’ If I had prayed this right from the start, I would not have wasted my life.”

       Which in terms of changing the world is what it is all about.

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Patience and wisdom walk hand in hand, like two one-armed lovers.”

       Jarod Kintz,

       Patience is not a virtue. It is an achievement.”
Vera Nazarian, The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration

       Patience is the ability to idle your motor when you feel like stripping your gears.”
Barbara Johnson

       Toleration is the greatest gift of the mind; it requires the same effort of the brain that it takes to balance oneself on a bicycle.”
Helen Keller

    QUOTE BELOW IS FROM WYRICK'S WRITINGS

          There is no other organization in the world like the church.  It is a breed unto itself.  It is a congregation of sinners, not a country club for saints.  To become a member you have to profess your unworthiness. 

CLICK ON THE FOLLOWING TO TAKE YOU THERE


      (These are selected sermons from over 50 years of ministry and as a worldwide evangelist Rev. Wyrick preached them all the United States and all over the world)

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      A new quote below from Rev. Wyrick's 9th book THE SPIRITUAL ABRAHAM LINCOLN...available on amazon.com, barnes and noble and many other book sites) (read the rave reviews below)

Everything that happened in the war was not of blood and pain and hate.  The best in man sometimes rises out of the worst.  More than likely the story of what happened one cold day during the terrible battle of Fredericksburg reached Abe’s ears and pleased the heart of this forgiving President.  It was a dreadful battle that cried out for some miraculous act of empathy.

A Sergeant Richard Kirkland of Company E Carolina Regiment made a request of his commanding officer that was almost denied.  He had looked too long at the tortured, twisted dead and dying men and could finally stand it no more.  He sought startling permission to take water and aid to those dressed in both Blue and Gray. 

“You may get a bullet in the back of your head, son,” he was told.  The soldier replied that he wanted to go anyway.

 “May God protect you,” said Major General J. B. Kershaw.  A short time later, men on both sides of this field of agony and despair, watched in awe as the young man vaulted over a bloodstained stonewall and walked unarmed and seemingly unafraid among the dead and dying.  They saw him kneel down and cradle a fallen Union soldier in his arms, offer him a drink of water, rest his head on his knapsack and cover him with his own overcoat.  And then move to another soldier nearby.  This time it was a Confederate soldier.

Again and again throughout that long, pale December afternoon, just eleven days before Christmas, Sergeant Kirkland returned with water until every living soldier, from both the North and the South, had felt his compassion and concern.

General Kershaw later wrote that not one shot was fired during that time.  That never had he heard such silent respect.  “…no doubt,” his pen etched, “all the trumpets of heaven resounded on this monumental day.” 

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            CLICK ON  www.go60.us   IT WILL TAKE YOU A NEW WEBSITE FOR SENIORS....click on "Voice" on the home page and then on the list of authors click on Neil Wyrick

Recent articles Rev. Wyrick has written for this web site are:  REFLECTIONS


·         Here Comes Summer (July 2012)

·         Spring (May 2012)

·         Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow (April 2012)

·         Wayward and Windy (April 2012)

Just remember that “the pain of discipline will cost you pennies, whereas the pain of regret will cost you millions.”

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How can we keep our faith from being a weak and fruitless thing?  How can we not be foolish little men and women groveling in the dark shadows of overeager egos. 

          Well, first we must do more than just pray.  We must believe in our own prayers.

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Anxiety out of proportion makes us become like a centipede trying to put his best foot forward.

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        It's an old joke, I went to the doctor and I said, “Doc, when I do this, it hurts.” And the doctor said, “Then don't do that.”

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        How many things have you been anxious about that were things which you knew before you got into them were probably going to create some problems for you?  And if you asked your doctor, or your minister, or common sense and your God, all of them would have said, “Don’t do that.”

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        To buy into the community of accountability we have to realize that like bikers we are divided into two categories.  Those who have fallen and those who will fall for anything. None of us are perfect.
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          Think on it this way, some philosopher of old wrote it and it endures because there is so much truth in it… every right implies a responsibility; every opportunity, an obligation; every possession, a duty

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      Some of the sermon titles posted recently

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Before you decide to purchase or not purchase his book THE SPIRITUAL ABRAHAM LINCOLN.... view his Award Winning One Man Dramatization of Lincoln (since he wrote the script for this drama it will give you an insight into what you will find in the book itself)

Available on Amazon.com in printed form and on Amazon Kindle Books. and at many other sites

TO VIEW THE LINCOLN One Man DRAMA and 3 other dramas; Ben Franklin, Martin Luther & Charles Wesley

click on the following URL

http://www.speakerneil.com/

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BELOW ARE MORE QUOTES FROM NEIL'S RECENTLY POSTED SERMONS

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A QUOTE FROM THOUGHTS POSTED ON MY OTHER BLOG WYRICK'S WRITINGS ENTITLED
       Two stores faced each other across a very busy street.  Their owners were in constant competition with each other.  One day, the owner of one store put out a sign that read – If you want it, we have it!

Almost immediately the other owner put out a sign –If we don’t have it, you don’t need it!


A QUOTE FROM THOUGHTS POSTED ON MY OTHER BLOG WYRICK'S WRITINGS ENTITLED

WHO ARE YOU?

NO…WHOSE ARE YOU?

       Who are you?  Whose are you?

You influence and are influenced according to the answer you give.     

Are you are the flavor of the month because you are determined to be like everyone else no matter what?  If so, consider being more independent in our thinking and actions...because God wants you to grow up.

It may be easier being someone's shadow but wouldn't you really rather be a sun. 

       QUOTE FROM THOUGHTS  POSTED ON WYRICK'S WRITINGS ENTITLED "Who Are You?  Whose Are You?"

       This is an old quote, and a romantic one as well but, nevertheless, can anyone say of you, “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

            QUOTE FROM THOUGHT PIECE POSTED ON WYRICK'S WRITINGS ENTITLED

" WHEN A NATION STRAYS TOO FAR FROM BEING MORAL IT IS WELL ON IT'S WAY TO BECOMING A MESS

        James 4:17

To him therefore who knows to do good, and doesn’t do it, to him it is sin.

        Someone once said: “A belief is what you hold, a conviction is what holds you!”

        So what holds you, constructs you, leads you with a push when needed?

       Quotes POSTED ON WYRICK'S WRITING ENTITLED WHO ARE YOU?

NO…WHOSE ARE YOU?

        In a Peanuts cartoon strip Peppermint Patty is shown talking to Charlie Brown.

“Guess what, Chuck? It’s the first day of school and I got sent to the principal’s office.

And it’s your fault!”

Charlie Brown responds, “My fault? How could it be my fault? Why do you say everything is my fault?”

To which she declares, “You’re my friend, aren’t you, Chuck? You should have been a better influence on me.”

In the comics, it’s funny… but in real life it’s much more complicated.

       Would you like to read the entire thought piece?  Then... TO TAKE YOU TO THE WYRICK'S WRITING'S SITE

                    click on the following


          Yes, God loves you the way you are but he loves you too much to let you stay that way.

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      Click on the URL below to WATCH NEIL IN HIS WORLD FAMOUS ONE MAN DRAMATIZATIONS OF ABRAHAM LINCOLN, BEN FRANKLIN, CHARLES WESLEY AND MARTIN LUTHER


       To Order and Read Neil's 9th book THE SPIRITUAL ABRAHAM LINCOLN

       GO TO amazon.com

       QUOTES ABOUT THIS WONDERFUL INSPIRING INFORMATIVE book

       STILL RECEIVING RAVE REVIEWS 8 YEARS AFTER IT'S PUBLICATION.

       "Positive, powerful utterances...skillfully enhancing our understanding and appreciation of Lincoln while revealing the Divine source of his strength."

       Lt. Colonel C.A. Olsen (Ret.) Asbury College (Professor Ret.)

       "The Spiritual Abraham Lincoln is an extremely well written book that investigates what might be termed the spiritual side of President Lincoln. It's both scholarly and very readable. I came away impressed at Mr. Wyrick's portrayal of the President and with an altered and enlarged vision of the man:'

       William Hoffman, Award winning fiction writer; author of Blood and Guile, and Wild Thorn

       "Wyrick has authored a wonderful examination of the spirituality of one of American history's most devoutly religious leaders...a pleasant and readable book that has a rich depth of information."

              Maynard Pittendreigh Presbyterian minister

        "When it comes to invoking religion in support of any of their decisions, politicians need to sit at the feet of Abraham Lincoln. Reinhold Niebuhr once called him 'America's greatest theologian.' Why so great? Because he invariably distinguished between human works and the works of the Almighty. As Wyrick says, 'He wore the mantle of humility easily: because he was more impressed with what God was doing in the world than with what he, president of the United States in the midst of an awful crisis, was doing. That is why in his last major speech he distinguished between both human causes in the Civil War and the Almighty's 'own purposes.' Lincoln would have agreed that it is better to leave God-talk out of politics than to decorate human proposals with divinity. This is a book for our American time. Through his careful study of Lincoln's career, Wyrick compels us to remember that piety belongs in politics only when piety transcends politics."

       Dr. Donald W. Shriver

       Emeritus professor at Union Theological Seminary in New York. Author of An Ethic for Enemies: Forgiveness in Politics

        "V. Neil Wyrick's fine work allows the reader to appreciate Abraham Lincoln's Christian commitment and his prophetic role in American history. Should have a wide readership."

       James H. Smylie Professor of Church History (Ret.) Union Theological Seminary, Richmond, Virginia

       "Neil Wyrick's The Spiritual Abraham Lincoln should be read by anyone attempting to understand the man who was probably the most complex person to ever hold the office of president of the United States. Dr. Wyrick is intent on demonstrating that the spirituality so often expressed in Lincoln's writings and speeches was not merely lip service to a Deity, but rather expressions of a profound faith in a real God. It was this faith that provided the wisdom, compassion, insight and sometimes steel that Lincoln would need in full measure as he led the United States through the Civil War. Dr. Wyrick's clear and unpretentious style of presentation is very much in keeping with the character ofhis subject, and in so doing, Wyrick makes his point very well that Lincoln, his beliefs, and the faith that formed them, are as relevant to a troubled America in 2004 as they were in 1863."

       Daniel Allen Butler, author of "Unsinkable"; The Full Story of the RMS Titanic, The Lusitania and The Age o f Cunard

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