Friday, March 6, 2015

LIFE IS A NUMBERS GAME

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TWENTY some years ago, a young man arrived on a certain campus with suit case, tuition and the usual package of hopes an dreams, and a small plaque upon which were written the words, "I'M third." Soon thereafter this plaque fount a place front and center on his desk. Whenever any one asked him what it meant, he'd replied, "I'll tell you the day I graduate from college."    Four years later, he explained, "When I left home to attend school, my parents asked I that do well, make good grades and good friends. Perhaps find some  distinction with one of the athletic teams. But above all, they wanted me to put God first in my life, the other fellow second, and myself third.

       This is what this plaque means and has meant to me all this time."

       After his explanation, which he gave several times during this day, there was always silence among his friends. They were thinking back to young freshman who was somehow different from everyone else--elected president of his class, captain of the football team and voted the most popular man on campus, who somehow had a confidence beyond his years and a remarkable control for one so young.

     Life is a numbers game, a day-by-day choosing of who and what we put first.

     The age-old joke about the man who had a love affair going on with himself isn't funny-for it is a description of all those people who cannot get along with people, who love themselves first and remember God only when it is necessary or when they are afraid. Jesus' first and second commandments are not just a religious requirement; they are a logical necessity.

      WHAT I THINK has to pass through some court of appeal before I act either for a stamp of approval or rejection.

      If I'm third, my every action had to filter through God's love and law, then through its possible effect on my neighbor and finally to me. By that time, it may look entirely different from what I first had thought.

      There are 25,480 days in the average lifetime. I've lived longer than  that and then some.. I wish all my decisions had been flavored by God's will and my brother's need. I'd be better off and so would the world.   It's a rather constant prayer now, "God, what would you have me do? How will it affect my fellowman?" It's also a constant battle because the old ego dies hard in all of us.

      The great Apostle once wrote, "Paul, a prisoner of Christ. . . ." We are all prisoner., of someone or something: of our loves or hates, of our faith or doubts, of life and its problems or Christ and his answers. Every time we say what we are going to do or be, something led us to the decision.

       Try giving yourself away, that's the way one man put it. He even wrote a book about it.

       David Dunn says, "Like most people, I was brought up to look upon life as a process of getting .... In this humdrum world there is altogether too much grubbing and too little giving. ... I recommend giving as an exciting and thoroughly satisfying hobby. . . . Fortunately each of us has a different assortment of gifts .... Some of us have spare time; others have surplus mental or physical energy; others have a special art, skill or talent; still others have ideas, imagination, the ability to organize, the gift of leadership. AU of us can give appreciation, kindness, interest, loyalty, understanding, encouragement, tolerance -and a score of other little portions of ourselves" (Try Giving Yourself Away).

      IF EVER wisdom was laid at the door to your heart, it was in Christ's commandment to love. The world is full of complaint; but seldom do I hear anyone claim that he is loved too much . Christian love is a daily miracle; otherwise it becomes the drudgery of duty.

      Christian love simply does for Christ what selfishness does for money. The Christian gives himself away to people because he has already given himself away to God. The Christian doesn't complain that he's being taken advantage of, because what others may call a cross he calls a joy.

       Christians are, above all else, in a constant state of being aware. Christ stands with them at the window of their soul and together they look for opportunities to be just plain nice.

       Like a Boston businessman who stopped every Wednesday afternoon by a small orphanage to be a father to some of the boys--like a retired railroad  engineer  who minded  small grocery store each day between twelve and one so the widow-mother could feed her children without interruption at lunch--like some of the people in church and community who don't look for excuses to complain but rather for opportunities to love. 

      You can fail to love refuse to love, mock love as weakness, patience as foolishness and understanding as archaic and unworkable. 

      You can "wrap (love) carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries, avoid all entanglements, lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. 

      But in that casket--safe, dark, motionless, airless--it will change. 

      It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, imenetrable, irredeemable." (C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves)

      It will be dead and so will you.


POSTED ON WYRICK'S WRITING SUNDAY MARCH 4..SOME THOUGHTS ON ARROGANCE AND HUMILITY

So why don't we chase after humility and accept it on bended knee?  Ah, the answer is simple enough.  "We'd like to be humble, but what if no one notices?" 

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