HOW TO HELP PEOPLE LIKE YOU

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As a Christian you can practice forgiveness toward those who don’t like you or you can also try to be more likeable. These suggestions can really make a difference in your life and the lives of those who interact with you.

1. Don’t cross your arms in front of you. It sends a signal that you are unapproachable and uncommunicative.


2. Lean forward ever so slightly. It is the exact opposite of crossing your arms in front of you. It shows your interest in the other person and what they are saying or doing.

3. Dress neat. Sloppy may be in these days but it isn’t pleasant to the eye. In short, don’t be a part of visual pollution.

5. Make the other person feel important.

This can be accomplished by subtle compliments or outright flattery (just be sure that any nice thing you say is true).

The point of the matter is that we all like to be loved and appreciated.

Indeed, definitely don’t be the kind of person who only says nice things about someone when you are standing at their grave.

6. Nod your head in agreement. Few people are clairvoyant.

It helps for them to know beyond the shadow of a doubt when you agree and that you are paying attention to what they are saying.

7. Listen. Ben Franklin suggested our ears should be twice as big as our mouths so that perhaps we would listen twice as much, speak half as much and be the better for it.

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STARTED SUNDAY MARCH 5, 2011 Serialization of another book SIXTY PLUS AND NOT HOLDING

This book, is about dealing positively with the challenges of getting older and fosters the belief that “If we would have new knowledge, we must get a world of new questions.” (Susanne K. Langer)

MANY OF THE IDEAS IN THIS BOOK FOR BETTER LIVING ARE GOOD FOR ANY AGE.

“I am come that they (you) may have life and have it to the full. (John 10:10)

Anyone who lives long enough gets older. There are no other options. How we handle the adventure is filled with options.

Keep both eyes on life, and not on the calendar. Admit your age, but don’t admit to the fallacy that you have to act like it. Saying, “I’m 39 and holding,” is more tragic than humorous because it argues that age has no attributes.

V. Neil Wyrick


Below a quote from it…

“Be like the farmer who, when asked what he was building, replied, “if I can rent it, it’s a rustic cottage. If I can’t, it’s a cow shed.”

It’s called attitude and it can make us prematurely old or longer young.

For truly, things aren’t just what they are, but rather how we choose to see them.”

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A quote below from tomorrow’s ONE A DAY blog entitled THE HARBOR


‘…by becoming a man or woman of the upward vision you can hear the songs of choirs as well as the screams of mobs, see the light of immortality at the dark time of the graveside, find hope in the hopeless, and the warmth of God’s forgiveness even when the hard cold grasp of sin is near.’

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To access his other book’s; BOUNDARIES UNLIMITED, RUST ON MY SOUL, POOR RICHARD’S ALMANAC, I AM SIXTY PLUS AND NOT HOLDING, THE ABC’S OF PARENTING AND GRANDPARENTING, LETTERS TO AMERICA…go to Amazon.com (books) and type in Neil Wyrick.
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